update cutlass dependency

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Motivation

finally! per token per 128 channel is on the way cc @yizhang2077

Modifications

Checklist

• Format your code according to the Code Formatting with Pre-Commit.
• Add unit tests as outlined in the Running Unit Tests.
• Update documentation / docstrings / example tutorials as needed, according to Writing Documentation.
• Provide throughput / latency benchmark results and accuracy evaluation results as needed, according to Benchmark and Profiling.

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shoutout to @soundOfDestiny @hwu36

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ref https://github.com/NVIDIA/cutlass/pull/2037/files